7 Things Self-Absorbed Partners Do That Slowly Kill Connection
Some relationships don’t end in explosions—they quietly unravel through the small, unnoticed ways one partner turns every moment into a reflection of themselves.
Ever been in a relationship that felt like it was shrinking instead of growing? At first, you might chalk it up to stress, busyness, or “just a phase.” But sometimes, it’s not about external pressures at all—it’s about a slow emotional erosion happening one interaction at a time.
Self-absorbed partners often don’t appear toxic on the surface. They might be charming, witty, or even deeply intelligent. But spend enough time with them, and you start to feel… invisible. Conversations become one-sided performances.
Conversations become one-sided performances.
Avery White / Oct 14, 2025
Author's summary: Self-absorbed partners can slowly kill connection in a relationship.